User question was this "the new you after baby, changes uve made by choice and obligation after baby came. Free time, what do u do with ur non mommy time. How to and when to ask for help and knowing its ok (this one is hard for me)"
The instant I found out I was pregnant everything changed for me. I changed who I associated myself with, the way I did things, my job, EVERYTHING. I gave up going to college for a year and friends. But that's what I had to do and I was ok with that. She is worth every single last thing that I had to give up. I would do it over in a heartbeat.
My non-mommy-time has been about 4 event excluding work, I don't really go out much mostly because nobody ever asks... but the few times I have its been like out to eat or a movie and the whole time I am just sitting thinking about her!! But you should never feel bad for taking time off, everyone needs it once and awhile.
Ask for help whenever you feel overwhelmed. It happens and is bound to happen to everyone. You should never feel bad to ask for help... most women have husbands that allow that "time off" and just because you don't have one does not mean you do not deserve that time. It's only not "ok" if you are doing this on a daily basis and for the wrong reasons (ie partying) so don't feel bad about asking for help, even I do it!
Keep posting your topics! <3 You all!! ~Lisa!
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